23.1.18

HOW TO RE-FOCUS
AT WORK WHEN YOU
FEEL LIKE A
DISTRACTED POTATO




It's 2 pm. How is it already 2 pm? 

You glance down at your empty coffee cup and contemplate whether it's time for another cup. 


You look back at your screen and back at the cup. You get another cup of coffee. 


You sit back at your desk and decide to focus. But first you check Twitter because you may have missed something crucial. Then you check Facebook just in case you missed something that wasn't covered on Twitter. You see that your friend tagged you in ANOTHER meme, your mom commented on your same picture for the third time (true story), and you read yours and all your friends horoscopes. After, you took a quiz to find out which Friends character you are. 


You decide that now you can focus. Now is your time. You open the thing you are supposed to be working on. You put your earphones in. And you're really not feeling this song but curious about what this artist is up to these days. They're touring. Next summer. Def going! Ok, ok, you find the song that will launch you into super creative work mode.


Now you can focus. Like hard. 


In the corner of your eye you see your phone light up and it's a text. Someone could be in danger. If they were, they'd obviously send you a text over a phone call. So you better check it. Like now. 
Anddd your friend sent you ANOTHER picture of their cat. 

Does this sound like you? If so, you've come to the right place.


Suit: Primark London, $70. Heels: Zara $35. Purse: Value Village, $8. Glasses: c/o of Clearly.ca. How cute are these frames?! When I saw this pink suit, I knew exactly which glasses to wear it with. I feel like a monochrome dream. Thank you, Clearly!

You don't have to hate your job to fall under the distraction spell. Maybe you love what you do but you've just gotten side-tracked and are having a hard time finding your way back to awesome. Here are some tips for feeling focused and energized:


Go.  

The fastest way to focus is to give your brain a break. If you're finding that you keep hitting a block in with what you're doing, whether it's writing or coming up with a creative solution to a problem, chances are your brain has too many tabs open. Try standing, walking around, going outside, and basically visit an environment different than the one you're currently in. This will give your brain some space to re-sort. Some of the most creative minds in history spent the majority of their time on leisure and sleeping. Check out this chart. The red bars represent time spent doing creative work. The green bars are time spent doing creative work.


I realize we live in 2018 and most of us are required to work a certain number of hours. But you get the point. Walk anywhere. The water cooler. Go! 




Awareness. 

This should probably have been first. Awareness is your friend. Once you become aware that you're distracted, you'll be in a better position to do something about it. Next time you get distracted, try taking an extra moment to analyze the before, during, and after. 




Two or three things.

On a day when i'm feeling most distracted but I have deadlines looming, I make a list. It has two or three (at most) things that I want to accomplish by the end of the day. When I can cross them off, I leave work feeling confident. During slower work times like summer for my job, I found it helpful to chop up my day into chunks. I use a Google Calendar and schedule each hour with a different task and colour code. I had it send me pop up reminders when it was time for the next task. It also gave me soft deadlines.


One thing at a time.

Managing social media is part of my job and a regular piece of my day. But it doesn't come without major distractions. Let's say I'm going on Facebook to check if we received any messages or comments on posts. So, I log on and BAM. Black hole. All of a sudden I'm conducting all kinds of creeping. At some point I return to my senses and think wait, why did I come here in the first place? It's like when you walk into the kitchen and immediately forget why you went there so you start munching on some cheese. Anyone? 


What were we talking about?


Right, one thing at a time! When I start something, I try really hard to stick with it. Even if it means having to be hyper-aware and keep a strict inner voice. No, bad, bad, close that tab, exit, delete, focus!



Music. 

I typically have to work with one earbud in at all times. I need to have background noise to help me focus. Silence just doesn't work for me... at work. 


If you're able to listen to music at work and it helps you focus, definitely try it. When I need to hyper focus, I tend to listen to mantras or instrumental music. I find music has a really positive influence on my work flow. Here's a link to one of my favourite playlists I made.



PHOTOS BY MICHAEL TUNDO.

Breathe.  

Here's a yogi pro tip! Sit straight and block your left nostril with your index finger. Inhale through your right nostril. Hold the breath for five seconds. Exhale through your right nostril. Try this for three minutes. This is the breath to help you focus because it corresponds to the left side of your brain, which is associated with logic. 


Happy focusing!








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26.11.17

THREE QUESTIONS
I ASK MYSELF
EVERY DAY

We have on average 50,000 thoughts per day. How many of those are questions? 

From the mundane...

Should I hit snooze again? Do I really need another coffee? Is it cold outside? Jessie Ware or Cardi B? 

To the existential...

Why am I here? Can I touch the clouds? Do I matter? What did I come here to do? 



I used to be the type of person to never question anything. I wanted to go with the flow, be super chill, and avoid stirring the pot. I think in venturing deeper into my yoga practice, there was some confusion for me around this. By practicing non-reaction, I've learned so much about being in control of my actions and being ok with what happens around me, knowing that I can't control everything and everyone. Learning this has been extremely helpful but I needed to strike a balance between non-reaction and speaking up when it's the right thing to do. 

I began asking myself a lot of questions and questioning things around me. 

Am I happy?
What are my limitations? 
Is this worth my energy? 
Am I inspiring others? 
Am I using my gifts to uplift?

I've learned that we have to ask questions. Questions temporarily halt the flow. They force you to take a step back and look at the big picture. And most of all, I've learned that asking questions can help me stay on my path, in my lane, and focused on my goals, to become my greatest version. Today I want to share three questions I ask myself every day. 
Top: Value Village, $6. Pants: Primark, $30. Shoes: Zara, $25. Bag: Ragtime, $15. Hoops: Forever 21, $8. 

1. How can I inspire and uplift others today? 

This is the question I ask myself most frequently. This one, like the other two that follow, generally comes to me during or after my morning meditation. It's more of a thought than a question I ask myself in the mirror. 

I've learned that the most effective way for me to feel good at a deeper level is by helping other people. As an over-analytical Virgo who spends way too much time dwelling in my own mind among my racing thoughts, I need to engage in something every day that gets me out of my head. Helping other people is my antidote. It makes me realize that whatever I was ruminating on isn't as important as I thought and there is more to life that the inner workings of my complex brain. 

Helping others usually revolves around compliments, chats, assisting with tasks, driving people places, making people food or drinks, donating to causes, and teaching yoga. But it's not just about directly helping other people, I also have to consciously choose to be kind when someone or something is challenging. I have to work to try not to gossip and to avoid raising my voice when I feel angry. I know at the end of the day, I won't feel better for yelling or gossiping or reacting in a negative way, so I try my best to choose the other option (love).



2. What small step can I take today to get closer to achieving my dreams?

I have big, big, dreams. I think we all should. Dreams only become reality when you firstly dare to acknowledge them, and secondly, realize that making them come true is totally possible. The most important step to actioning dreams is knowing that they take time, persistence, focus and discipline. If the time is going to pass anyway, why not take a small step towards it every day? 

I do something small every day to get there. I also acknowledge that I am already living my dreams every day. We have to use language as if we've already gotten to where we want to go. So that's what I do. 


3. What's one thing I can do to feel good today?

My answer is usually: go help someone. It also relates to my daily routine. In order to accomplish the things I want to in this life, I'm going to need a strong body and mind. I ask myself what I can do to get stronger. Sometimes it's what you may think: eat well, drink water, exercise, meditate, get fresh air. But some days, feeling good is about: resting, not restricting myself from indulgences, canceling plans and taking a night off. 

It's all about listening to what feels right for me but also reminding myself of the importance of developing physical and mental strength to help me get to where I want to go. 


PHOTOS BY LISA KIDD. We took these right before attending our very first Question Period on Parliament Hill. 

Tell me, what questions do you ask yourself?
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15.2.14

Keeping things groovy.

While it's horribly cold and goopy outside, I like to keep things groovy on the inside. This is one of my favourite and most frequented blazers that I wear to work. My t-shirt you may recognize from my latest thrift haul video; It's such a fun print but if you stare at it too long you may start to see stars! The purse was a score from H&M and I predict it to be a summer favourite. I paired it with classic black skinny jeans and my gold sequinned oxfords. This is the time of year for indulgence, relaxation, and keeping things groovy until the storm passes. And by storm, I mean six months of winter. 
Blazer: Value Village, $10. T-shirt: Value Village, $6. Jeans: Forever 21, here. Shoes: Winners, $15. Purse: H&M, $3. Glasses: Kenzo.





All photos taken by Lisa Kidd.

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